Trauma Bonding

✨Good signs to watch out for 💕 don't mistake love for trauma bonding. There is always the 1 person in the relationship that is the taker and 1 that's the giver in this dynamic.

Classic narc/empath relationships.

This is very toxic cycle that most of us have had at some point in our lives.

With partners, siblings,parental relationships, friendships or even coworkers.

There are different levels to this, it's not all extreme sides or that cut and dry. It can be much more subtle. But poison is poison.

Once you're aware of the signs though ,it's easier to make healthier choices.

For the empath, this is very self destructive behavior, victim mentality. That leads you off your life path mission/purpose. This causes a lot of confusion, distorted thinking and chaos in your world.

These dynamics on the positive side are powerful catalysts for deep healing,personal empowerment and

growth, once you break the cycles .

For the empath/ giver they learn to empower themselves through ,self care & boundaries . Saying no on a verbal and energetic level is very powerful to breaking these generational curses/trauma . (Most of the time they would be considered earth angels ,by humanity's terms ) they came back to learn their light and true Divinity through this relationship dynamic.

For the extreme narc (taker ) (these typically are lower level entities or have demonic attachments to them because they are sitting in a lower frequency ) they are here as the empaths dark teachers. Deep soul spiritual lessons come from healing from this .

hopefully these ones can see that there needs to be balance of give and take and to heal from being in the outward abuser position.

You can't always consume .(time , resources, money, energy, food, ect ..)That's energetic gluttony (7 deadly sins ) they feed off of the empath like a vampire.

For super sensitives it will make you extremely sick being exposed to these energies.

There always has to be a balance of give and take energies ☯️

That is the natural order of life. 💚

When we live in natural order we create love and harmony within ourselves and all interactions we encounter.

This is how we can change our inner /outer world by doing the shadow work, healing our pain /trauma.Taking the time to sit with ourselves and allowing those energies to leave us that no longer serve our higher good.

(Detox ,mind body & spirit) a good cleansing cry is not a sign of weakness.

It's a sign of great strength be vulnerable,show emotion and to let go of what doesn't serve your greatest good.

Clearly... or our world wouldn't think there is strength or power in domination and control over others . 🙃

Inner strength, and self control , power over your emotions and reactions are true power .

Not everyone can do this .

But to those who can ! Keep going beautiful souls 🌟your making a difference in this world .

Shut the door on the drainers,leaches ,back stabbers of your precious energy. In love and walk away to create a better life. No explanation needed .

No judgement. It just is . You can't change anyone but yourself at the end of the day. 💕

Not easy path . But it's worth it 🙏

From an alchemy or magical perspective ✨

*Side note there are people out there that truly hold magic . That is the ability to manifest easily conscious or unconsciously.

Some remember some just do it naturally on an unconscious level ( they are the most powerful)

Some are natural born / some learn through studying the mystical arts . These are walocks /witches who have lifetime's of experience.

(I dislike that terminology greatly!! There is always light and dark. It's been used in the wrong way, but to simplify things that's how I will describe it to the lay person of the occult world)If someone is a practicioner of the dark occult or enlists one to purposely destroy someone.

That will rebound in a way like you can't even image.

🛑Do not dabble !!! In this world.

I'm seeing more and more people intentionally dabbling in energy manipulation wicca , shamanic rituals ,witchcraft ect who do not truly understand the ramifications of their actions.

Please do not engage in this until you understand deeper cosmic or universal laws.🙏this will effect not only you, but your generations to come . You don't want to hold this kind of karma.

Those who disregard and think they are smarter or stronger than the Universe above cosmic laws....

I will just pray your soul finds the light one day, as that bounce back will be catastrophic.

Since you know better....

Unconditional Love is the highest form of universal energy/magic ✨

We don't need to do spells to manipulate our realities, people or situations when your truly aligned with your higher purpose. You work hand in hand With the universe and the universe works with you ❣️

Anchored in Divine light /love and a higher intuitive consciousness. ✨

The laws of attraction and correspondence kick in and you can manifest what you need with ease.

Without creating a disturbance within the natural order.

Everything is energy.. .use yours wisely